You don’t need to “join” GFAS to attend a support group meeting. Just show up. Your first meeting can be stressful. It may be the first time you’ve revealed yourself to anyone. If you contact us through the website, we can put you in touch with a group member who can listen to your concerns, answer your questions and even meet with you in advance of the group meeting. You are entering a safe space of support and respect… the kind of place you may not be able to find at home.


The peer facilitator ensures that every man who brings an issue to the table has some time in the meeting. The discussion is confidential and empathetic, and we strive to make no judgments and give no advice. Men around the table listen and share from their own experiences to the benefit of all. It usually comes as a welcome relief to be among guys who know what you’re talking about and how you feel because they’ve all been through similar situations, faced similar challenges.


Some men come to only one meeting. Others attend for years. Only you can decide what’s right for you. If you do choose to continue attending, you will almost certainly make many friends among the men in the group. Becoming a dues paying member is not required, but the money goes toward a worthy goal, namely helping GFAS outreach so that men like ourselves can find GFAS and the support it provides.

When and where

IN-PERSON meetings are every Thursday from 7:30-9pm. The meeting will ALSO be available via Zoom. Use the link posted on the Featured section of our Facebook group or obtain from a GFAS member. Post-meeting social time is planned after in-person meetings.

WHERE Seattle LGBTQ+ Center 400 E. Pine Street, Suite 100 on Capitol Hill. Please arrive no later than 7:30 p.m. when the doors will be locked. If you do arrive after 7:30 p.m. there will be a number posted on the front door that you can call to request access.

Hope to see you there!

A safe environment

The meeting follows some simple guidelines:

• Welcome every man in a spirit of acceptance and trust.
• Give freely of your personal experiences and avoid telling others what their experience should be.
• Respect the confidentiality of every man, unless they give specific permission to share their experience with others.
• Respect the views of others, although you may not share them.